Mindy Kaling has kept much of her personal life private, but here's a look at her past relationships, including her connection with BJ Novak, and details about her role as a mom.

I mean, of course BJ Novak was the one to present Mindy Kaling with her star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Of course, he kissed her affectionately on the head. And, of course, he joked about her being “superficial” in his heartfelt speech to her. This is the kind of friendship that dreams are made of.

Mindy Kaling and B.J. Novak only dated publicly for three years. But their relationship, former and current, haunts fans who have questions.